Reduce the crowd: A tip for success

 Good evening readers. This is our next  tip for success in the success series. After discovering yourself, knowing what you are good at and trying to be the best at it the next step to take is this.

Be free with all but friends to few. This is the next key to success. In other words, be happy with everyone, speak freely with people, socialize but share ideas with few. Why? You may ask. The answer is simple. The lesser the crowed, the lesser the distractions. If you keep too many people around you you are likely never going to achieve anything. Keeps friends who share similar ideas, views, and beliefs with you. 

Every successful person in life never crowds his/herself with people. They move in minority, with the  minority. Having friends is not a crime but keeping unnecessary group of people who claim to be friends but have not impacted your life positively is. Keep friends who will not discourage you with their negative responses to situations. 

Spoken words are shaper than the sword. Some people are failures today because of what someone said to them. You have intentions of doing something then a friend comes and says "don't even bother it won't work for you. I tried it too and it  didn't work out". That statement alone is enough to discourage someone who wasn't so sure in the first place. 

It is what you feed the mind that it thrives on. So if you are surrounded by pessimistic people with time you yourself become like them.

Remember even Jesus had many friends or followers in his time but he surounded himself with just 12 of them.

Break down your circle, reduce the crowed so you can breathe freely. This is the next key to success.

Love,

Silver Joan❤.

"I fought so hard for true love before you came" - Bobrisky finally shows off his lover, Henry

Controversial crossdresser, Idris Okuneye popularly known as Bobrisky, has finally shown off pictures of his love Henry Ike.

Sharing photos of his boo on Instagram, Bobrisky stated that he asked for permission before posting the photos. He added that  he fought so hard for true love before Henry came along.

A meaning to life

life sometimes can be very unpredictable and twisted. At times we put in our all in life and get nothing in return. So we decide to take matters into our own hands and end it. End our sufferings, our problems and so on.

The truth is whatever it is we are going through there is someone out there who has been through it and even worse. So what? You have read for an exam, wrote to the best of your knowledge and when the results were finally out you failed beyond compare, or you have prepared so hard for a job interview you have all the qualifications and when the time comes you weren't given the job, or is it the promotion you have worked hard for, that is so obvious you are the person for that position only for it to be given to someone else.

No matter what the experience might be, we do not have any right to end our lives. Instead of focusing on the dark side why not look at the bright side. Yes it is okay to be disappointed, sad, angry. But don't forget that others have suffered worse and are still alive.

While you are crying over that failed exam others are crying over a dead friend, couesemate. While you are feeling dejected over that job you did not get, others are mourning their colleaque. While yo are brooding over that promotion, others are burying their boss.

So you see you are not the only one who has had a bad day. So when people come to comfort you let them in. I personally do not encourage people to say "you don't know what i'm going through" or" put yourself in my shoes

The truth is whether you like it or not every one has had their fair share of bad times. True it did not come the same time as yours but we all get to experience that ugly aspect of life.

It is better to fail today, and be alive to succeed tomorrow. Than fail today, and die a failure. Also don't forget no matter how dark the sky is at night, the sun will surely rise in the morning.

Peter and Judas both betrayed Christ in their own ways, but the difference is that Peter unlike Judas choose to change. And he did that by living.

Always remember that when the going is rough.

You can only change what you are, and where you are now when you choose to live.

Please share to friends

Love,

Silver Joan❤.

BUSTED: Nigerians dig up family photos of BBNaija's Praise after he claimed to be single (Photos

Just few hours after the housemate claimed to be single, Nigerians have dug up photos of his engagement, his alleged wife and kid.

He was spotted in the house hanging out with Vee and fans already believe the two may have something to do in the game.

They apparently seem to be getting along well as Vee was seen sitting on his lap.

Praise, a 28-year-old from Enugu, doubles as a fitness and personal trainer, dancer and a certified Latin ballroom expert.

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Ghanaian man pours hot water on his breastfeeding wife's breast in Enugu

A Ghanaian man, Emmanuel Opoku, has been arrested by men of the Enugu state police command for allegedly pouring hot water on the breasts of his nursing wife.

 A women-based non-profit organization, WomenAids Collective WACOL who shared the sad story online, said the nursing mother with a three-month-old baby, was allegedly assaulted by Opoku after she asked him for money to purchase some food items. The group said Mr Opoku has been arrested and will be charged to court on Monday, July 14 while the battered wife has been taken to the hospital where she is receiving medical attention.

 The organization pleads with Nigerians to report any suspected cases of violence against women and children, in order to end the impunity of violence against women and girls in the society.

Deaconess arrested for allegedly subjecting her ward to extreme torture, including burnung her vagina wuth lighter and inserting hot sticks before rubbing pepper in it

A deaconess of the Living Faith Church (Winners Chapel) has been arrested for subjecting a 14 year old girl living with her to brutal torture.

It was reported that the girl named princess lived with her parents u ntill they were attacked by bandits in their in their residence. For this reason, they sent princess to live with Mrs Iyema Oyemola Oyewole who resides in Barnawa.

According to reports, the deaconess stoped princess from going to school, forced to sleep in the toilet and drink water from it when thirsty and was frequently beaten.

According to reports princess was not only tortured by the deaconess alone but by her children as well.

It was alleged that the deaconess put a knife in fire u ntill it was hot and burnt princess with it all over her face. It was also reported that the deaconess with the help of her children, burnt princess private parts with lighter and in some cases inserted hot sticks into her vagina and applied pepper as well.

It was said that often times when princess parents came visiting Mrs, Iyema wouldn't allow them into the house using  COVID19 as an excuse.

Princess father became suspicious and involved a Non Governmental organization. When they were finally able to see her, the state they found her in was alarming.

When Mrs Iyema was interrogated,  she claimed she didn't know the knife she used in torturing princess was very hot.