Wednesday, August 26, 2020

Reduce the crowd: A tip for success






 Good evening readers. This is our next  tip for success in the success series. After discovering yourself, knowing what you are good at and trying to be the best at it the next step to take is this.

Be free with all but friends to few. This is the next key to success. In other words, be happy with everyone, speak freely with people, socialize but share ideas with few. Why? You may ask. The answer is simple. The lesser the crowed, the lesser the distractions. If you keep too many people around you you are likely never going to achieve anything. Keeps friends who share similar ideas, views, and beliefs with you. 


Every successful person in life never crowds his/herself with people. They move in minority, with the  minority. Having friends is not a crime but keeping unnecessary group of people who claim to be friends but have not impacted your life positively is. Keep friends who will not discourage you with their negative responses to situations. 

Spoken words are shaper than the sword. Some people are failures today because of what someone said to them. You have intentions of doing something then a friend comes and says "don't even bother it won't work for you. I tried it too and it  didn't work out". That statement alone is enough to discourage someone who wasn't so sure in the first place. 


It is what you feed the mind that it thrives on. So if you are surrounded by pessimistic people with time you yourself become like them.


Remember even Jesus had many friends or followers in his time but he surounded himself with just 12 of them.


Break down your circle, reduce the crowed so you can breathe freely. This is the next key to success.



Love,

Silver Joan❤.




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