life sometimes can be very unpredictable and twisted. At times we put in our all in life and get nothing in return. So we decide to take matters into our own hands and end it. End our sufferings, our problems and so on.
The truth is whatever it is we are going through there is someone out there who has been through it and even worse. So what? You have read for an exam, wrote to the best of your knowledge and when the results were finally out you failed beyond compare, or you have prepared so hard for a job interview you have all the qualifications and when the time comes you weren't given the job, or is it the promotion you have worked hard for, that is so obvious you are the person for that position only for it to be given to someone else.
No matter what the experience might be, we do not have any right to end our lives. Instead of focusing on the dark side why not look at the bright side. Yes it is okay to be disappointed, sad, angry. But don't forget that others have suffered worse and are still alive.
While you are crying over that failed exam others are crying over a dead friend, couesemate. While you are feeling dejected over that job you did not get, others are mourning their colleaque. While yo are brooding over that promotion, others are burying their boss.
So you see you are not the only one who has had a bad day. So when people come to comfort you let them in. I personally do not encourage people to say "you don't know what i'm going through" or" put yourself in my shoes
The truth is whether you like it or not every one has had their fair share of bad times. True it did not come the same time as yours but we all get to experience that ugly aspect of life.
It is better to fail today, and be alive to succeed tomorrow. Than fail today, and die a failure. Also don't forget no matter how dark the sky is at night, the sun will surely rise in the morning.
Peter and Judas both betrayed Christ in their own ways, but the difference is that Peter unlike Judas choose to change. And he did that by living.
Always remember that when the going is rough.
You can only change what you are, and where you are now when you choose to live.
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Love,
Silver Joan❤.