Monday, May 4, 2020

Boyfriend prays girlfriend finds a good husband

I attend a birthday party of one of the commissioner's  daughter in Ibadan late last year.
Het boyfriend was present, his friends, her friends, friend of her friends and the circle continues.
It got to the point where we were to say something about her and pray for her.
Everybody spoke and her boyfriend was last to speak. We all were curious to hear what he would say. The normal thing every guy would say will be"i will love you forever, we will  have beautiful children, we will  never break up" and so on .
But this gentleman surprised us and said
"I pray you find a husband who will love you for you".
After everything was over she met my sister and I, and told us she was upset with what her boyfriend said that he embarassed her.
At first I was mad at what he did and even adviced het to leave his sorry ass.
But when i sat down to think i realized what he did was right.
Instead of giving force hope and making empty promises he stated fact.
A fact every relationship must learn to embrace. Your current boyfriend in most cases is not whom your future is paired with. Your first love might not be your last

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