Nollywood actress Lillian Afegbai has dished out a piece of advice to those who are chief judges over people's decisions pertaining to who they choose to date in a relationship.
Lillian took to her Instagram stories to disclose that all fingers are not equal, hence, the disparity in choices amongst people.
According to her, nobody likes to suffer or date broke people.
Here's what she wrote;
"YOU PEOPLE CAN KEEP DECEIVING YOURSELF NOBODY LIKES TO SUFFER IF YOU LIKE BROKE PEOPLE. YOU CAN'T FORCE EVERYONE TO BE LIKE YOU LET PEOPLE THAT LIKE BETTER THING ENJOY... INDEPENDENT WOMEN WANT TO BE SPOILT or, RESPECTFULLY •
ITS WHAT YOU ASK FOR YOU ATTRACT.... STOP BASHING PEOPLE WHO WANT DIFFERENT FOR THEMSELVES. YOU DON'T KNOW THEIR STORY.
Popular brand influencer, Tacha receives heavy backlashes from notable OAP, N6, and reality star, Dr. Cherry following her claim about BBNaija on her life.
This is coming after Tacha slammed a troll that mocked her for being nothing without the Pepper Dem edition of the reality show. In reaction, the Port Harcourt first daughter insisted that the show would not have been as interesting without her.
This claim, however, triggered more trolls and celebrities who called Tacha's attention to her 'ungrateful' attitude as OAP N6 particularly insisted that the show played a significant role in her life.
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Backing the OAP's claim, Dr. Cherry added;
"The OAP guy is so on point but some naive keypad nomenclatures will start commenting senselessly here now ..@symply tacha Be humble and appreciate the platform that uplifted you bcos not even the DMW tattoo could have brought you this far into the limelight.
dr cherryAnd oh less I forget ,please you weren't the "SHOW" plz Pepper dem Bbnaija had a lot of fun interesting housemates that still kept the show running even after your disqualification #icomeinpeace," she wrote.
A 300 Level student of the University of Ilorin, Olajide Omowumi Blessing, was brutally raped and murdered by unknown persons at her sister's residence in Tanke area of the Ilorin, the Kwara state capital.
The deceased was a student of the Agricultural Science Department from Oke-Opin community in the Ekiti Local Government Area of Kwara State.
Spokesperson of the State Police Command, Okasanmi Ajayi, who confirmed the incident on Thursday, said Omowumi was found naked with her two hands tied to the back and mouth gagged on Tuesday, June 1.
"The deceased stayed with her elder sister. The elder sister came back from work at about 6:00 pm on Tuesday June 1, saying that she had tried severally to reach her on phone but couldn't as the phone kept ringing. She came back from work to meet the door of her apartment locked and couldn't gain entry despite repeated knocks on the door. She then called some neighbours who helped to break open the door," he stated.
"They all met the deceased lying dead on the floor when they entered with her two hands tied to the back, and her mouth gagged. She was met naked, bruises were noticed on her private part, her mouth was covered among others
"Also, a note said to have been written on a piece of paper was placed on her chest containing a message, "Unilorin doesn't forgive." The people later informed the police at F' Division Police Station, who discovered the dead body, snapped the picture, and took the corpse to the University of Ilorin Teaching Hospital (UITH) for autopsy." he added.
The PPRO said that the state Commissioner of Police, Mohammed Bagega, has directed immediate investigation and arrest of the attackers.
Reacting to the incident, Hon Ganiyu Abolarin, representing Ekiti State constituency at the Kwara State House of Assembly, demanded an immediate investigation, apprehension and prosecution of the culprits.
"I am deeply concerned about increasing cases of rape and brutality against the girl child in Nigeria. I strongly condemn the gruesome killing of Olajide Omowumi Blessing, a 300 level student of Agriculture Science at the University of Ilorin, who hailed from Oke-Opin in Ekiti Local Government Area of Kwara State," he said.
"This gruesome murder of Olajide Blessing, who was allegedly raped to death in her home at Tanke, Ilorin, is one death too many. The action of the culprits horrific, condemnable and should not be condoned by any society. I, therefore, urged security agencies to speedily investigate, arrest and prosecute the culprits. The perpetrator(s) of this dastardly and barbaric act must be brought to justice, we must all seek justice for late Olajide Blessing.
"We must ensure that all the culprits responsible for this barbaric act are swiftly brought to justice. This nonsensical act of raping must stop in Nigeria. I want to extend my condolences to the family and friends of the victim.While I commiserate with the bereaved family on the loss of their daughter, I prayed God to grant Blessing's soul peaceful rest. I also want to urge all our young people to be wary of the company they keep and the places they visited." he added.
It's no surprise thst women are celebrated internationally today. Time has shown that women play a vital role in societal development. Women have been known to play a significant role in history. Every critical and complex situations have been handled by very talented and goal driven women. Women whose voice have brought about change. Women who have fought to make the world a better place.Women who amidst men single handedly took the bull by the horns and enacted the change. In history classes, there is no history without Mary Slessor who sucessfuly stopped the killing of twins. Flora Shaw, Lady Lugard. Who intellectually coined the name Nigeria. Moremi of Ife who risked her life, married the enemy in order to save her people. Mother Teresa, who was known for her kind heart and good deeds.
There are lots of women who have writen history with their own hands and many who are yet to write. In our present day, we speak of Ngozi Okonjo Iweala. A woman who despite all odds, stood out to be the best. There are many women of great value who have done what men failed to do in this present age.
Being a woman isn't a limitation or a set back. It is an opportunity. An opportunity to prove yourself, to show the world what you have to offer. To be the best and never give up. To weather the storm, climb the highest mountains and soar high. It's in this light, Michelle Obama says "There is no limit to what women can accomplish".
If you are a woman, stand tall, sit upright, raise your head high and do what women do best.
Good evening guys and happy New year. This is my first time writing on my blog this year, and I really don't know what to write so I'm going to bore you guys with my very irelevent write up😀.
I remember starting this blog March last year. I was super excited when I dropped my first write up, feeling like Linda Ikeji😂😂. I really don't know why I started this blog. Still trying to figure out if it was due to the COVID19 lock down or just for attention. Anyways whatever the reason is, I'm grateful to those of you who still visit my web page despite my lack of dedication.
Year 2020 was one he'll of a roller coaster. Call it a terrible year, disappointing year, a year with so many unfulfilled goals. All these terms are very true about 2020. For me, it was a really challenging year and my cope mechanism was writing. But the truth is every year has always had its own challenge. I learnt a very important lesson last year, one that I'd like to share. Life will always bring what the wind blows. As individuals, we have a long list of goals, aims, ambitions, do's and dont's. But life has a mind of its own. One thst could alter your entire dream.
Since its established that life's a 'bitch'. The next line of action is to 'go with the flow'. What I mean is do not sit back and nag over those failed dreams. Instead, sit up and think. Life is critical, hence it requires critical thinkers. The only way to beat life is by playing its game. Take charge of your current situation be it bad or good.
One trick in life is nothing lasts forever. One can be rich today and suddenly poor tomorrow, famous today and suddenly nothing tomorrow, and vice versa. The only way to make sure you rise and not fall in life is to pick up the broken pieces of life and make them whole. It might takes years, months, weeks, days, but at the end its worth it. So I may not be as famous as Linda Ikeji today,😀 I may never even be famous but that doesn't mean I shouldn't try.
Life is a struggle. As long as there's life, there's hope.
All that glitters is not gold. They seem attractive, glistening under the sunlight, Shining in the moon light. One slight gaze, and one is swayed.
Hearts made of stone, yet appear so soft. Hearts so cold, yet act so cool. Hearts that speak deceit with ease, Tongue so slimy, like snakes they hiss. Sowing weeds among wheats, turning folks to foes.
Hearts that thrive on one's strive, Ones fall is its thrill. They gather around, showing sympathy and empathy, But deep down they only wish one is empty. They embrace one with open arms, Squeezing one so tight, saying its alright.
Hearts of man so wicked. Glistening under the sunlight, Shining in the moon light. Hearts so cold, one close look and you'll know.
Hearts black as coal, heavy as stone. Hearts that deceives the easiest of fools, Only the wise would know.
Hearts that offer false hopes, Tongues that speak lies to those who ain't wise. Slowly convincing, easily deceiving. They encamp around one, Surrounding one with walls of falsehood. Only to leave one trapped.
Hearts that disguise as friends, Only to act as enemies. Hearts that pretend to love, Only to leave one lost. Hearts that pretend to give, Only to take back more what its given. Hearts that pretend to care, Only to leave one scared. Hearts whose laughter and smile, comes at a price one has paid, A price that leaves one in anguish and pain.
Hearts of man and wicked. Crooked like the rough roads. Ones suffering, is its offering. Ones tears, its thirst. Ones heartbreak, its breakthrough. Ones heartache, its Heart beat. Ones doom, its room. Ones plight, its delight.
Hearts that glitters like gold. Only the wise would know, All that glitters is not gold.
