JUSTICE FOR RAPE:NEVER BLAME A VICTIM

The news in rape is becoming  unbearable. Women are raped, sexually assaulted and harassed, and some killed.

The rate at which sexual violation is increasing is really disturbing. One can say 85-90& of women have suffered one sexual assualt or the other. And the painful part is the victim's suffer more than the perpetrators. The reason is that the victims carry such hurtful memories in their minds, because one can try to forget but can never actually forget. While the guilty in most cases go free or at most are sentenced to 14 years jail term.

Since the fact has been stated, it is adviced that as a woman, once a fellow woman comes to share her story with you, your first words should be chosen carefully. On no circumstance should you blame the victim. No matter what lead/led to the rape or sexual assualt of any kind never blame the victim.

Am writing this because something happened today. A friend was sharing her experience with me about how she was sexually harassed. Instead of me to start by showing her comfort, I went straight to telling her what she did that she ought not to have done. But at a point I realised my mistake and corrected it. Because the fact remains that no matter what a woman do/does to avoid being  sexually assaulted she is still likely to be assaulted. So no matter what, show love to a victim.  At that point when she's sharing hetr pains with you she only needs your support and comfort.

Let her know it was not her fault and that she has nothing to be ashamed of.

WOMEN we are all we have.

A student raped and killed inside a church in Ibadan

Another student identified as Grace Oshiagwu was allegedly raped and murdered inside a church in Ibadan, Oyo state, weeks after a UNIBEN student, Uwaila Omozuwa was murdered in a church in Edo state.

The incident happened on Saturday June 13. It was reported that Grace who was 21 years old, a  National Diploma student of Oke Ogun polytechnuc  was allegedly raoed and murdered inside a church located in Ojoo Area of Ibadan in Akinleye Local Gicernment Area, where she was found with machete cuts on her body,

The spokesperson of the police command, Gbrnga Fedeyi, in his statement confirmed the incident but added that investigation is still going on and he also solicited for credible information from members of the communities around the area and the general public.

BBNaija star, Khafi's brother shot dead in London

Big Brother Naija star, Khafi Kareem currently mourns the death of her brother Alexander.

Alexander who was 20 years old, was shot dead close to his family house in shepherd's bush, west London. It is reported that he was shot within the early hours of Monday at about 12.40am, while walking back home from a convenience store.

The culprit is yet to be identified.

Mother who calls her 2-years old daughter who was raped a prostitute, is sent to a rehabilitation center

Lagos  state government sent mother who beat up her 2 year old daughter and called her a prostitute to a rehabilitation center for mentally challenged people.

Report has it that the woman beat and insulted her 2 year old daughter after she cought a man raping her. This came to the notice of  the state government after the video of the woman abusing her daughter was shared on line by a resident of the state.

The permanent Secretary, Mrs. Yewande Falugba stated that at soon as the ministry of youth and social development was aware, actions were taken to rescue the children on Saturday 7th June 2020, from Oniru beach, where they lived with their mother.

According to her the children were taken for medical treatment and are currently placed in one of the approved government orphanages in the state for adequate care as the case is been investigated. She also added that the mother who was confirmed to be mentally challenged has been sent to the state rehabilitation centre for mentally challenged persons.

Popular hair vendor dies

Popular hair vendor Anna of Annishair is dead.

According to reports, she passed away a fee days ago from an illness. The full details, or cause of her death is yet to be revealed. But some of her friends who took to social media to mourn her death claimed she was poisoned.

Babcock university student accused of molesting girls on Iperu cammpus

A Twitter user AnnaDanBIB took to Twitter to accuse a Babcock university law student of molestation. Her words exactly were; "well there was one low key light skin weirdo in law campus (Babcock) that will take you to the Conner so that he can masturbate in front of you. He has done it to several people in school.

This post lead to various responses from girls who bore withness.

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Peruzzi accused of rape

A woman accused peruzzi of rape on twitter. She said she is speaking out due to the boldness of other rape victims.

According to her, the inccidence happened year 2012 when she followed a friend named Aisha to visit  peruzzi in the area popularly called 1004.  She said at night in the room she shared with Aisha peruzzi tried to touch her inappropriately but she refused. According to her story, she finally changed her sleeping area to the Palour downstairs. While she was fast asleep, she said peruzzi came downstairs and forced himself on her. She couldn't speak to anyone at that time because she was scared and her parents were not aware she was in Lagos.